Betrayed Christian Wife:
How To Get A Grip On Your Emotions
So You Can Make
Wise Decisions

Is Your Life Ruled By 
Worry, Anger, Fear and Doubt?

You are not alone! 

And you are NOT going crazy.

Your response is called "betrayal trauma" and is normal and expected.

How many of these common symptoms of betrayal trauma do you experience?

  • Worry
  • Anger
  • Fear
  • Depression
  • Sleep Disturbance
  • Loss of Purpose
  • Victim Status
  • Dysfunctional Relationships
  • Flashbacks
  • Hyper-Vigilance
  • Eating Disorders
  • Guilt & Shame

When you discover your husband's involvement in pornography, the deep sense of betrayal makes you instantly feel unsafe and insecure.

It seems everything you believed in was a lie. Your mind is unable to process the facts and your heart doesn’t want to believe them.

If you don’t get a grip on your emotions, the dreaded darkness of depression will steal your sanity, choke out your faith and sabotage your body.

I Know Exactly How You Feel!

The undercover cops flashed their badges and search warrant and before I could catch my breath, the words, “pornography, internet and prison” were trying to find a place to land, but my minds creamed, “IMPOSSIBLE!”

That's how I learned my husband had betrayed me!

I was a very stable, solid and in-control type of person until that day of discovery when cops showed up at my front door.

In the blink of an eye, I was changed. I suddenly felt unable to cope with reality. 

In fact, I kept rubbing my skin as an attempt to wake myself up from the nightmare.

I thought I was going crazy!

Most people don’t learn about their spouse’s pornography addiction in a situation as shocking as mine, but I bet you still had a similar response as mine.

When you discover your husband has been using porn, you face an unexpected and life-changing crisis that you can’t seem to understand. The shock of it shakes you to the very core and suddenly strips you of your identity.

You wonder why you aren’t good enough and start to ask what YOU did wrong!

You set yourself up to be the scapegoat for your husband's sin and if he's shrewd, he'll use gas-lighting to blame you until you become his doormat and condone his sin.

When emotions are chaotic, you will be confused!

What's Holding You Back?

Here's the huge problem you face right now:

You are disappointed, discouraged and depressed.

But that's not the end of the problem...

What makes your situation even worse is your negative self-talk and the fact that you stay focused on the negative!

Which means those negative thoughts and emotions just keep resurfacing and you're not able to focus on solutions. Your mind spins round and round and creates more chaos and confusion.

And worst of all, many betrayed wives can't get past the idea that God isn't changing their negative situation. They've prayed and seen no results and just get more discouraged.

This Life-Changing Crisis
Affects Every Part Of Your Life

  • Relational Crisis:   damaged marriage relationship
  • Identity Crisis:   rejection makes you doubt everything about yourself
  • Emotional Crisis:   confused and paralyzed by anger, fear and anxiety
  • Spiritual Crisis:   doubt God or fear He's punishing you

All this can make overcoming rejection so you can be emotionally whole and spiritually strong impossible!

You are too unstable to figure out how to protect your family, your sanity and your future.

If that's not bad enough, you know the devil is working overtime to destroy your husband, marriage and family.

How can you possibly make wise decisions when your mind never stops churning out negative thoughts and you have an enemy who is stronger than you?

I promise, God does have a solution!

There are ways to permanently overcome the devastating, negative emotions that keep you up at night.

If you're betrayed Christian wife who needs to overcome isolation and depression but can't get over the pain of rejection and broken trust, here's the answer you've been looking for.

How To Be Emotionally Whole And Spiritually Strong So You Can Make Wise Decisions

  • Gain A Biblical Perspective
    Because God knows our human weakness and our anxious response to tragedy, the Bible is filled with instructions for dealing with anxiety. It gives us the right perspective so we can interpret tragic events in their proper context. Without it, troubles will multiply.
  • Build Spiritual Crisis Survival Skills
    Ever wonder why some people go through trials and come out better, while others seem to struggle forever and make problems worse? Learn how dealing with sin God's way takes you through the crisis without painful mistakes. 
  • Grow In Faith
    The devil is the enemy of your soul and your faith. His goal is to use your worst situation to make you doubt God's wisdom so you'll make bad decisions and make your situation even worse! But God can use the same situation to make your faith stronger and more effective!


There's Nothing Mystical About It

You can defeat the forces of darkness
working against you
and obtain lasting victory.

Use Biblical Strategies That Actually Work To Restore Mental Stability

Identify Emotions

You are hurting in many ways but you can't treat the problems until you properly diagnose them.

Invest Yourself

False hope is deadly. You can't afford to live in denial, hope for a miracle to change your husband or just sit back and wait for God to fix it all.

Initiate Dialogue

God is the only one more powerful than sin and Satan, and without His help you will battle in vain

You can learn step-by-step how to get a grip on your emotions, fight spiritual battles and
experience peace of mind TODAY!


I’m Nannette Klein and I have helped Christian wives not just survive, but OVERCOME betrayal trauma. Women just like you who thought they would be depressed or stuck on the emotional roller coaster forever.

So what is the only way to overcome betrayal trauma?

It’s calming the chaos within.

That might sound impossible because your mind is a whirlwind of obsessive thoughts. You've been searching for answers to give you peace of mind but can't find them.

This leads many wives of porn addicts to isolate themselves. They've been betrayed and don't dare trust others, which makes them feel they must face this crisis alone.

They've already tried to figure out what to do next but made painful mistakes. When they can’t make sense of it all, then they get trapped in their own wrong thinking and don't trust themselves either. It's a common pitfall to get paralyzed by fear of failure.

So they pray and when nothing changes, they stop trusting God.

Now, I know what you’re thinking.

If God cares so much about me, why does He let my husband use pornography and destroy himself and our family?

The truth is...when people find themselves in a life crisis they start doubting God's goodness, wisdom and power.  This dangerous mindset leads to hopelessness and despair.

What you must realize is that God uses tragedy for good. He wants to use your worst relationship to reveal your wrong views of yourself and God and transform your relationship with Him!

When that relationship is transformed, then you and your life are as well.

That’s why I created the CALM THE CHAOS WITHIN workshop...

...So you can restore hope today and experience the transformation that God alone provides.

Get Real Results...Right Now!

  • 1
    Focus On God:  overcome deceit; restore trust; find God's will for you; pray in faith; make wise decisions that glorify God.
  • 2
    Learn How To:  treat betrayal trauma so you can think right; engage in spiritual warfare so you can win the battle; convert emotions from problems into solutions.
  • 3
    Video Lessons And Workbook:  this online workshop is available so you can watch in the privacy of your own home and go through it at your own pace.

This Is Your Opportunity to Open a Treasure Chest of
Spiritual Growth Strategies

If you love the idea of growing closer to God, so you can overcome rejection and live with purpose in the midst of chaos… 

If you’re tired of giving in to negative self-talk that promotes, fear, worry, anxiety and depression…

And if you’d like to bypass years of trial and error and discover the biblical strategies that will help you QUICKLY gain peace of mind and restore proper thinking to deal with your relationship issues… 

Then I’ve got great news for you.

I wholeheartedly believe that Calm The Chaos Within is the most useful resource for anyone who truly desires to glorify God with faith and obedience during the greatest time of crisis in your life.

You can get Calm The Chaos Within for the low price of just $17.

That's right!!  ONLY $17.

I have deep compassion for Christian wives who are committed to following Jesus, even when it's tempting to shut down, seek revenge or divorce their porn addicted spouse. It’s a noble calling and if you're ready to take it seriously, then I want to encourage and equip you to do it. 

This price makes it affordable for anyone who really needs it.

Second, as a woman who spent years scouring the scriptures for answers, I know how it feels.

I know how it feels to struggle to believe God's promises when your marriage and life are falling apart…

To get up and take care of kids and a job while my mind struggled to focus on anything besides the pain of rejection...

To keep trusting God even when my husband was in jail because of his sexual sin, the bank account was empty, and nobody understood the internal struggles I faced every moment of every day...

It took me a long time and a lot of hard lessons to get where I am today. I'm so thankful God didn't let me wallow in my pain forever. Not one ounce of suffering was wasted. He used it to drive me into His word to find healing and solutions.

And because of it, I’m in a position to help you shortcut that learning curve and find success much faster and easier than I did.  

I want to you to take action to deal with this crisis right now before it gets worse! 

You can't afford to waste another day hiding in the shadows while your marriage is self-destructing.

Nannette Klein

Creator of


Who Am I?

I’m intimately aware of the pain of rejection, isolation, shame, anger, and loneliness caused by betrayal.

My path to become a grace-driven, Christian mentor became clear the moment I heard of another woman hiding in shame after her husband’s secret sin of pornography obsession was publicly exposed.

At that time, I didn’t know what I could possibly do to help because I was in the same painful situation, but my heart was aching with compassion for her.

My distress led me to hundreds of hours of Bible study and counseling training that prepared me to create highly-effective programs based on biblical principles to help Christian wives whose husbands are involved in pornography.

Start Your Journey Towards Healing Today

Get a grip on the emotions that confuse and paralyze you.

Learn biblical solutions that honor God and empower you to face the chaos and overcome evil with good.

Grow in knowledge of God and His will for you.

Immediate  access to start healing NOW!

100% Satisfaction Guaranteed


What Others Are Saying...

"I could not have come this far without you. It wasn’t long ago that I would think about what he had done and feel physically sick to my stomach. I’m beginning to put this behind me. I promise you, I could not have done this without your help." -Anne

"I had been desperately searching for someone to help me deal with my pain and point me to the Lord, which is where I needed to go. But I needed a real person who had been where I’d been to walk me through this very difficult time. Nannette did that." -Angela

How is Calm The Chaos Within
Different Than Other Programs?

Your husband is using pornography. 

You are the betrayed wife suffering because of sin. 

That's where most programs begin and end! a Christian, there's one more person involved in your marriage relationship...

Jesus said, "Without Me, you can do NOTHING!"

There’s a lot of advice out there for wives of porn addicts, but almost all of it leaves God out of the picture.

That’s the biggest mistake any Christian could possibly make.

No wonder women are struggling with depression and can hardly cope with their daily responsibilities. So much worldly advice is leading women astray and they lose sight of God.

Don't be deceived by worldly programs that have no power! God is the Creator of your soul and He provides all you need to care for it.

Calm the Chaos Within doesn't ignore your pain and goes to SCRIPTURE and deals with it head-on!


  • Discover God's will for you in this messy situation.
  • Grow closer to God.
  • Learn how to fight spiritual battles.
  • Get off the emotional roller coaster.
  • Escape the pit of depression.
  • Avoid worrying about the future.
  • Sidestep bitterness.

What's Missing

  • Methods that leave God out of the picture.
  • Bad advice from clueless people.
  • Wrong methods for spiritual warfare.
  • Judgmental blaming of the wife.
  • Legalistic man-made rules.
  • Pity parties...crying over problems and offering no solutions.

You Get Immediate Answers To Pressing Problems:

  • Learn what the Bible says about rejection and how you should respond to it.
  • Learn how to express anger righteously and use it to solve problems instead of destroy people.
  • Learn how to search the scriptures for answers to your problems.
  • Learn the cause, symptoms and biblical treatment for betrayal trauma.
  • Learn how to spot the subtle lies of the enemy and overcome them with truth.
  • Discover how to identify the heart issues and what God says to do about them.

100% Satisfaction Guaranteed


Frequently Asked Questions

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What do you have to lose if you ignore this problem?

Your mental, emotional and spiritual well-being!

You'll remain confused and paralyzed by your emotions and just keep struggling...yet never figure out how to overcome rejection, be emotionally whole and spiritually strong so you can make wise decisions!

Most of what you need is biblical instruction and compassionate encouragement from a betrayed wife who has successfully "been there and done that!" I provide that -- so all that's left for you to do is turn to God and put His Word to work in your life.

Get this Online Workshop NOW and let God help you overcome rejection and experience His peace.

Act now to save your sanity and your faith!

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